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تلك النقطة تتسبب
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وغفران.
كلما كان الخطأ الذي إرتكبه أكبر,
كان الحب الذي سيعطيها
إياه فيما بعد أكثر.
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ويبدأ بعمل
أشياء صغيرة من أجلها وتبدأ بتقديره مرة أخرى.
ينسى أن يحضر شيئا ما وتقول:
"لا بأس هل تحضره في المرة القادمة عندما تخرج ؟ "
تكون سعيدة لرؤيته حين يعود إلى البيت.
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" نعم "
وتبقى في مزاج جميل .
عندما تجرحه وتفهم ألمه, تعتذر وتعطيه الحب الذي
يحتاج إليه .
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وتقول
" ما كان بامكاننا رؤية منظر الغروب الجميل لو أننا
سلكنا الطريق الآخر" .
تبوح بمشاعرها السلبية بأسلوب متزن دون لوم,
أو رفض أو دون أن تكون مستنكرة له .
تطلب دعمه بدلاً من التركيز على أخطائه.
ير تكب خطأ و لا تقول :
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أو تقدم نصحاً .
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التي يمكن عادة أن تضايقها .
ينسى أين وضع مفاتيحه ولا تنظر اليه وكأنه
شخص لا يتحمل المسؤولية.
عندما ينسحب لا تجعله يشعر بالذنب.
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تكون لبقة أو لطيفة في التعبير عن كرهها
أو خيبة أملها من مطعم أو زيارة
عندما تخرج معه .
يتسبب بخيبة أملها ولا تقوم بمعاقبته , بل
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وهكذا فإن كان الرجل قد ارتكب خطأ,
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وهو بالتالي سيعطيها نقاطاً أكثر إن كانت استجابتها
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يخيب أملها,
فإنه يهبط من منزلته, وذلك لأنه يفقد إستحسانها
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هنا حين تكون حاجته القصوى إلى حبها!
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تلك النقطة تتسبب
له في ألم فظيع.
ربما لا تدرك أنها تفعل ذلك.
ربما تظن أنه يشعر بخيبة الأمل فقط, ولكنه يشعر بإستنكارها .
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تصرف من تصرفات الرجل يعتبر مصدراً رئيسياً
للحب
بالنسبة إليه.
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ولكن ليس بالضرورة أن يمتلئ بما تقوم
به من أجله.
فهو بدلاً من ذلك يمتلئ بكيفية رد
فعلها أو
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كان الحب الذي سيعطيها
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ويبدأ بعمل
أشياء صغيرة من أجلها وتبدأ بتقديره مرة أخرى.
ينسى أن يحضر شيئا ما وتقول:
"لا بأس هل تحضره في المرة القادمة عندما تخرج ؟ "
تكون سعيدة لرؤيته حين يعود إلى البيت.
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وتبقى في مزاج جميل .
عندما تجرحه وتفهم ألمه, تعتذر وتعطيه الحب الذي
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وتقول
" ما كان بامكاننا رؤية منظر الغروب الجميل لو أننا
سلكنا الطريق الآخر" .
تبوح بمشاعرها السلبية بأسلوب متزن دون لوم,
أو رفض أو دون أن تكون مستنكرة له .
تطلب دعمه بدلاً من التركيز على أخطائه.
ير تكب خطأ و لا تقول :
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أو تقدم نصحاً .
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التي يمكن عادة أن تضايقها .
ينسى أين وضع مفاتيحه ولا تنظر اليه وكأنه
شخص لا يتحمل المسؤولية.
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تكون لبقة أو لطيفة في التعبير عن كرهها
أو خيبة أملها من مطعم أو زيارة
عندما تخرج معه .
يتسبب بخيبة أملها ولا تقوم بمعاقبته , بل
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وهكذا فإن كان الرجل قد ارتكب خطأ,
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وهو بالتالي سيعطيها نقاطاً أكثر إن كانت استجابتها
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وأنه يتلقى بركات إستحسانها,
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يخيب أملها,
فإنه يهبط من منزلته, وذلك لأنه يفقد إستحسانها
وغفرانها ,
وفجأة يطرد إلى الخارج.
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الحقيقية وراء ما يفعل. والمرأة إن كانت تحبه حقاً,
تستطيع أن تجد وتتعرف على الخير فيه.
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يكون بالبحث عن القصد الطيب أو النية الحسنة وراء
سلوكه الخارجي .
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