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We feel fear when we're overwhelmed and don't believe we have the tools to deal with certain situations. There will almost always be situations we know we cannot handle....yet.  For example, a couple of years ago any horse that bucked would have had me on the ground.  Knowing that I have to work on and improve my seat has meant that I am better able to stay secure on a horse that decides to throw its self around a bit.  If you feel insecure in the saddle,go back to basics.  Have some lessons (as I did) on the lunge.  It can make all thedifference.  If you know that you have a good seat, you will feel more confident that you can handle just about anything your horse can throw at you.........literally!Do not under estimate the power of your mind.   Top riders use a variety of techniques to keep their mind and attitude in tip top condition.  They train very hard and their mental training is equally as important as their flat work and jumping. 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