( she said" shall I ever get married" (indirect.
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she asked if she could get married.

.She wondered if she would ever get married

she wished to get married
or she hoped to get married

she asked if she had to get married

She wondered \ asked if she would ever get married

She wondered if she would ever get married .

the sentence is not a real question so it cannot be ( asked / wondered ) but it is a wish so it is wished or hoped . thanks